Orangeboy

Bochu twink race works fine, and plenty of npc appearance mods will work with sam. The only bochu npcs I know are the kiki followers patch Savrenx made. The other solution would be using rsv or rbt with himbo (or sam, since there does seem to be a bnp sam patch here) to make either yourself or an entire race more feminine.

I believe a script extender has already been released by the same team, though it isn't on their website (for now), it is on the Nexus.

Did you set the weight slider on the 'High Weight' side to 100? That usually fixes issues like this for me.

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Yes, it does work. However, for the .dll for SoS, you will need to replace that. If you search on google "Schlongs of Skyrim AE DLL" you will likely find it on loverslab. Do this for the installed mod folder, not the downloaded folder. I believe there is, or at least was. Make sure to build in bodyslide. I don't know if the physics work with BILF. I also know that it is more subtle than a lot of body mods.

https://vectorplexis.com/profile/18366-kreiste/content/?type=downloads_file. It is multiple different mods/files, but they all come together to make skimpy versions of pretty much every armor and outfit for the game.

Here on Vectorplexus I believe Kreist has some skimpy replacers for vanilla/dlc outfits and armors. Check his profile.

Either you are using an outdated version of Skyrim from before 1.5.97/after 1.5.97 but before 1.6.640, or you didn't replace it properly/you replaced it with an incorrect DLL. Just take an updated .dll and overwrite the one in the mod folder for SoSAM. Do not do it in the download folder, but rather the installed mod folder.

Then you are using anniversary edition/non-1.5.97. Find an updated DLL (I know loverslab has some) and replace the one in the mod.

Are you using BILF? If so, in Bodyslide you need to set the "0 to 100" slider to 100% under the "high weight" section and build/batch build. If not, I would still check bodyslide just to be sure.

Those wings look awesome! They fit your character so well. I looked at the mod page, and it seems they are just the wings. Is there a particular mod you use to fly?

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So, if you are using SAM Lite, I am fairly certain you need to use the Schlongs of Skyrim Sam Patch by SavrenX, though I believe someone posted an updated version here on VectorPlexus. When you preview the part labelled VECTORPLEXUS BILF BODY (I think thats what it is called), you will not see the schlong, just the body (no hands feet or head either). Just batch build it and it should be good. If you are using SoSAM, install the BILF patch and batch build the body in bodyslide. I noticed that when I built the V1 or V2 Genitals, I had duplicate genitals in game, so don't do that if using SoSAM.