choco

ok i dont know what im doing wrong, so if you can help me it would be great. so before i installed SAm, i had already installed, xpmse, hdt, etc etc etc. now i also had instaled better males and didnt unninstal it before i got SAM. when i started a new game with alternate start and tryed to use the mod, my hands appear purple and when i start tweking with the mcm menu nothing looks at all like the videos ive seen or the screenshots, like samuel doesnt look samuel at all and neither samson, the legs look skinny ad everything else look the same when i tweek clavicle and head and arms and torso etc he looks like some kind of orangutan, and the hair textures don work at all. could anybody tell me what i did wrong?