Nectars

Hey, I just have two questions about this wonderful mod! Firstly, I'm just a little confused about which Bodyslide I'm supposed to be using for BILF with SOSAM. There's a BILF patch, which makes me think I'm supposed to be using the BILF bodyslide, but then the SOSAM bodyslide files are also labeled BILF? So which is it? Secondly, is there any way to get the schlongs to match HIMBO bodies? I don't use HIMBO of course, but I do use a couple follower replacers that are unfortunately shipped with HIMBO bodies. Not a huge deal other than the fact that the schlongs don't match. Is there any way to get them to look right on these replacers, or do I just need to deal with it? Thanks for your help!